Don't really know where to start. I have read all the wonderful messages written by friends and colleagues. I never gave myself time to get to know Pat. But she was very kind when helping me record a poem to be played at my mum's funeral. I think it took 3 attempts and Pat was very patient and respectful of my tears. Pat made Frank so very happy over so many years, whatever else that's all that matters to me. From the bottom of my heart, I wish things were different & you had many healthy, happy years ahead together. May you find peace from the pain when you are ready. Goodnight xxx